Happy Mother’s Day, Grandma
Each September my grandmother wrangled our entire unwieldy extended family into our ‘88 Dodge Ram and headed south for Colorado Springs. Our yearly destination? Chili Pepper Junction.
While the drive there was barely two hours, for me it was endless. All I wanted was to spend the afternoon in the sun, snapping plump chili peppers off their stalks and stuffing them into burlap sacks. I loved the crackling noise their stems made, and their earthy, spicy smell.
My grandmother worked efficiently, clipping one, two, three, four peppers in quick succession, first with her right hand then with her left. Eight, sixteen, thirty two, a bushel. She’d call over - “Won’t these be good in that soup you like?” I’d look at the pepper in my hand. “Hey little buddy,” I’d say. “Thanks for being delicious.”
For days after these outings I’d watch intently as my grandmother expertly cleaned, halved, dried and crushed the peppers, preparing a year’s supply of chili flakes. My family is Korean, so this was no average family’s supply. Throughout the year I’d watch her tossing handfuls of bright red powder into our soups and stews, and generously packing it between Napa cabbage leaves for kimchi. When I started cooking myself I tried to mimic that flick of the wrist: sure, swift and recipe-less.
To this day, my grandmother still sends me double-freezer-bagged portions of hand-ground, hand-picked chili flakes to use in my own cooking. She can barely speak English, but she knows how to maximize a flat-rate shipping box. She loves her cell phone but is unimpressed by the Internet, and “finding a recipe online” strikes her as ridiculous.
She has no interest in babies that aren’t mine, and since I don’t have any babies, she has no interest in babies. This from the mother hen who raised four children and nine grandchildren in a foreign country, learning to curse in English along the way. She loves discovering new cuisines and flavors, and is always the first to compliment my cooking, even when my first attempt at spaghetti bolognese left the other members of my family somewhere between unimpressed and appalled.
So happy Mother’s Day, grandma. Your food is the greatest gift I’ve ever been given, and I think of you every time I cook, which is daily. You’ll never read this because it’s on the Internet you think won’t last, but I’ll be sending you some delicious little buddies of your own this week.
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